Since I have lived in Jaco, Costa Rica
for over 7 years now and, I guess, I show some sign of being successful in
business and am still excited to be here, are the reasons why I often end up
being the listener then advisor to many of the new residents in town. I give
them advice on business and living in Costa Rica in general. So I thought, why
not share what I regard as my best “ relocating in Costa Rica advise” to
gringos (p.s. this term in Latin America is used by the nationals as all
Westerners, including Canadians, even though they like to think else wise). It is a word, which originally was derogatory,
but since has become the norm and most have no clue of the derogative
background.
1.) Anywhere anybody lives, you always hear people or yourself complain.
Why, because the grass is always greener on the other side. So take all the
rumors and complaints in with a grain of salt and not as it is legitimate as a
“direct quote form the NYT.”
2.) Always remember that you relocate thousands of miles away from the
U.S. and are now in the middle of Central America. If you are using U.S.
customs and cultural norms; you are most likely going to get very frustrated
and never are truly enjoying living abroad and taking it all in because of all
that negativity you will be piling up in the back of your mind. In business and
in life, I see people from the U.S frustrated because Costa Ricans often process
something (a task, job, service etc.) different because they ddn’t go to he
same schools, understand the same legal ideology (they use a base for of
Spanish law here versus the U.S. uses a base English form of law), and they
were most likely not raised with the same priorities that you have and may
other differences that make cultures differing. So, in these situations sit
back and relax and/or, if need be, speak kindly with the person on the other
end of the situation and guide them in the way you want a situation to be
handled. Perspective is the key. All of us are coming from differing backgrounds,
so put yourself in their situations
3.) Take extra precautions with personal security. I tell people
living here is not dangerous. The U.S media definitely does over sensitize
everything, especially in regards to poverty in the U.S. Yes, I will be the
first to say that the U.S. does have poverty and the poor people face many
hardships. That being said, in the U.S. there are all kinds of programs,
scholarships, and education opportunities. Where I originate from (Milwaukee,
WI) there is a large ghetto and the homes in the oldest part are some of the
most gorgeous homes, built in the 1920’s, in the city. Here they simply don’t. There
is no welfare, so some of the very poor people have never even thought or
imagined doing the things that al American have the opportunity and liberty to
dream about. Tourists and new residents should Remember that many of the poor
in Latin America truly here have nothing to lose. Many of the poor literally
have nothing and there are very little repercussions. So, if they see obnoxious
lavascious behavior, this could easily, become a target for some type of robbery
crime; one computer on the black market might feed a family for 1 month or
more. Also if you leave your lap top on a table in a crowded bar (even not crowded)
while you use the john and it is gone when you return…this isn’t Kansas anymore
and you cannot treat it as if you were in your home city. Treat Latin America
like a big city and take precautions. When those precautions become habit, then
you understand why people might rob you if they had the opportunity. If you
don’t give them the opportunity, the danger stops there in Costa Rica. Generally
speaking, Costa Rica is safe, and the misconception that Jaco is dangerous, is
simply and absolutely not true there is only more trouble to get into in Jaco.
Take these 3 tips into account when visiting and especially
after you make any big move abroad. I believe these simple rules above can apply
to many different cultures and countries. When you can accept the things above
and no longer obsess about it, (obsessing and hating about things like this is
part of the shock of moving to a new culture, but it does leave If you stick it
out.) you will see that your new countries’ grass is pretty green too and you
might even take some time to smell the local flowers! You’ll find people in
Costa Rica (and Latinos in general), more in touch with reality and more
grounded and desensitized. If you are fat here, they nick name you “fatty,” if
you look tired they tell you, enjoy the real life and take it all in by opening
your mind and enjoying the culture. In business You can only force people into
you desired mold by first understanding them. There are so many more things to
learn as well for a well-adjusted gringo transplant, though, I believe, these
things above open the door to most of the other adjustments you have to
make.